I feel needy and desperate when asking my friend to hang out

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I don’t have many friends, mainly because I’m shy but i do have one who i usually hang out with but this summer she’s been ignoring me and constantly turning me down so i feel i cant ask her to do anything anymore. I decided to just wait it out until she asked me so it wouldn’t seem like i was desperate but she STILL hasn’t said anything! What can i do? I feel so lonely when i’m meant to be having an amazing summer:(

Tags: asked July 17, 2014

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Evaluate your actions towards her. i had a friend like that before,i kept turning her invitations down because i feel like i need a "me time" and she makes me feel like my world is revolving around her and that i need to be with her whenever she like. Even when going to the bathroom!i kinda pity her because i'm her only friend but i have other priorities and well, i have a life aside from her. well i hope that's not the case with you and your friend. You just have to be patient with her, and maybe make new friends! as they say,don't put your happiness in someone else's pocket.
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1. Have you told her how you feel? 2. If not you should try to. 3. And if she knows how you feel and doesn't respond that's not to good. You said you didn't have many friends right? What about your other friends? Have you asked to hang with them? If not its worth a try. And they might be just busy, so you never know. But I wish you the best of luck. Always try to think positive. And try to hang out with some of your other friends. And try to put yourself a little more out there. Good Luck!