I feel like i’m losing the one person with the strongest grip on me.

I have now been with my Fiance’ for about 8 months, and am pregnant.
Sure we have had our problems, but we always stay together, but i just feel like i am loosing him. I know he loves me because i can see it in his eyes, but i just don’t know how he thinks. I can’t read his mind like i once thought, and it’s just scary. He’s almost left me twice, and i feel like it’s going to happen again, and just the thought of losing him, the one thing with the tightest grip on me, just makes me want to curl up and die. I don’t know exactly what i’m asking here, but i just need help..

Category: Dating & Relationships asked April 19, 2014

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Annierooboo

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You need to step back away from your emotions because all they are doing is confusing you.

Think objectively about what is going on and sit down with your fiancée and talk it out. Get on the same page and ask the tough questions you are afraid of. It is the only smart thing to do. I know it is hard, but fretting yourself to a fit isn't accomplishing anything.

On top of it all, you are going to be a mother. You can not afford to muck about without answers. Either that young man is going to stick around and help you with the baby he helped you make, or he needs to tell you that he is leaving so you can start making other arrangements for the future.

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