I Don’t know why it’s this way?

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I feel alone in a room full of people,Disconnected.Yes I talk, I laugh and I try to seem happy,it’s like putting on a facade.But inside I’m all alone, when I’m out of the room, I’ve no one to really talk to, or call,or text.I’m saved for not having to live alone for now,but I wonder how things would be as I turn older.I don’t really have friends who I can call friends, and most of the people I talk online are just not physically present,It’s just a virtual presence.I know that nobody can help me not feel this way,but maybe I’m writing just coz sharing makes me feel a lil unburdened. I turned 28 this year,Im still the way I was 5 years back.I keep real busy but still this feeling of being lonely gets to me when I’m not working.I wonder if certain people like me are born to be this way forever.It is so weird and I don’t get to meet people or make new friends at all,coz everybody seems to be quite happy in their own skin, they already have friends,they already have their partners,why would they even care to be friends with new people.I mean I’m not Brad Pitt,I’m just an average guy.I live a life of solitude, guys my age would probably laugh on it,they have families, friends, their partners,I cook for myself, watch some Tv and then read a book and go to sleep,on weekends,I don’t even have someone to go out on a movie with,it’s strange but so true.

Category: asked December 20, 2014

3 Answers

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I know how you feel. I'm always alone as well, though I live on my own. Don't forget that there are always people out there who are just like you. Maybe you can join some club or something like that, where you can meet new people and make new connections. If you ever need to talk, my inbox is always open.
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No one would laugh at you because you feel lonely at your age. This means only that you want to go out and meet new people, but at the same time.. maybe it's you that you don't want to hang out with people around you. Or, at least, I was feeling like this years ago, and sometimes even right now. I always felt lonely, thinking that no one would hang out with me, that I didn't realize I didn't like the people around me. Instead of going out with them, I prefered being on my own. But just like others said before me, there are plenty of people that are like you, lots of people that you can meet and have fun with, you just have to change a little your routine. Instead of staying at home the weekends, try to do something else outside, ask a colleague to hang out for once, maybe you'll meet his/her friends, and you will face a new communication with them. But you have to try, or else, you'll never know what you're missing. Good luck!
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It's only that way because you made it like so (described above). If you want change then take risks. People, in general, will always want to meet and experience new things, people, and places. Anyway friends come and go, but a special few will always be there for you.