i dont know who i am.. straight or les

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i think im a lesbian.. but I at the same time think I don’t. I mean women in general don’t turn me on but I have this one friend.. shes my best friend and I just cant stop thinking about her all the time. she too feel sthe same for me and we tried different things out too but I still do like boys and ive had a few relationships with them too in the past..

Category: Tags: asked May 7, 2014

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There are so many more options when it comes to sexuality than "gay" or "straight". Maybe you're bisexual, or maybe there is just something about your friend that allows you to connect on various levels. Only you can discover who you really are, but don't confine yourself to a label. Just be you, and love as deeply and as openly as you can. Good luck.
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It's okay not to be sure--you don't have to be able to label yourself (although you can if you want to). But it's completely okay to say "I like this person and I'm not going to worry about what label to put on myself". The really important thing is just to communicate with the other person.
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I, too, am confused about my sexuality. However, you should think of it like this: no person is 100% gay, nor are they 100% straight. It is a sliding scale, a continuum. I don't know the situation with between you and your friend, but you could be confusing very strong feelings of friendship with sexual attraction. This same thing is happening to me; I may have taken a liking to my friend, but I could be confusing myself. I think the best thing to do is to stay open-minded. That way, no matter who you are attracted to, you can be happy with yourself. I hope you found this helpful.