I can’t Stand It

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My father is so irritable! I have to do the laundry for ny five famiky members, which is a constant cycle, do the dishes 24/7, sonetimes do the, and he gives us chores on weekends. One summer we spent chopping down humongous trees. I used to invite friends over, and they would always ask uf I had chores, because then they wouldn’t want to come over. I am always picking up after my dad, and he yells at me for the most ridiculous reasons. He is constantly on me about my weight, though he’s on the heavy side, doesn’t go to the gym like I do, and eats unhealthy foods. I know this sounds bratty but it just is too much to handle added to the stress I am under, whuch is a different story. How can I keep my anger from boiling over?? Help!

Category: Tags: asked November 12, 2013

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Sounds like your dad is a bit of a jerk, I suggest that you talk to him about it, and maybe come to an understanding, I mean your a teenager and yolo right haha.
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IMO don't think you should shelve that anger. sounds well deserved. Unfortunately chores are chores and its not always fair when you look at the breakdown of division of labor. But if everyone's contributing... you cant ask for too much more.

But sounds like he wouldn't be too receptive to some criticism himself... so maybe he can use some as well? It is your father so stay respectful, i'm sure he does alot to keep your family fed and chore-riddled. However, if he never is complimentary in his tone or word choices; thats a problem. A problem he should be told about (by you). Surprisingly, he may not even realize he's that way.
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Sorry about some of the misspelled words, I am doing this from an unreliable source.