I am very Lonely

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All of my friends wont hang out with me outside of school
They only talk to me in school, sometimes I get invited to stuff, rarely, I should say, all summer I was hoping for friends and I only hung out with people 4 times!!!! In 3 months! I am so lonely and just want real friends, I cant leave them though because, I will lose my popularity! Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ♥

Tags: asked August 2, 2013

3 Answers

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Popularity isn't always everything, sure it's nice and all at times but having friends who maybe aren't as popular but have more common interests with you, might be the key to spending more time with people. With that in mind, it's not like you only have to have one group of friends, you could try to connect with other people as well as your popular friends.. Also, sometimes if you want to hang out with people you should ask them yourself, maybe they're waiting at home for someone to call them to ask to hang out, someone has to initiate it, why not you?
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If you don't like your so-called friends but are only being with them because they happen to be well known then I think you are friends with them under the wrong intentions. It doesn't matter your social status especially in school, honestly no one even gives a crap. Be with people that you actually enjoy being with; and get your intentions in check. At the rate that you are going I doubt you'll be friends with them for long, just saying in elementary school I hung out with the 'popular people' but I never talked to them again when I went to middle school and high school. So who cares about the social status at a school, if you are with people that you enjoy being around that's what matters most and where you will meet people that will be your friend for a lifetime.
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Well it is your choice, do you want better friends and care less about being popular, or would you rather have crappy friends and be popular? You can come by and message me if you would like to talk more about it