How to make her fall in love with me?

Alright, now I know that people are different & love just happens naturally.
but I met this girl, she is the same age as me… the most of her activities & interests is the stuff that I like to do in life as well.
she invited me to her house, we talked & had fun… at night i couldn’t sleep at the sofa, so she invited me to her bed… it was a bit awkward at the beginning but then she tickled me to light the mood up, and then the next thing I know is me kissing her.
even though I know the girl for few days, I just got this vibe that she is the right one for me.
I felt like I’m home, and there was such a warm feeling for her.
I told her that I like her, and she said that she like me too… but she also said that so far she doesn’t love me, and that it takes time to build trust.
Somebody help me please, I waited my whole life for a good gf… and this one feels so right.
what can I do to make her fall in love with me, and take it to the next step.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked December 29, 2014

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DJ111

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she said she likes you so that means you're half way there. just give it time, keep talking and seeing her normally, with time her feelings for you will develop. you'll both get to know each other better and see what happens. just be yourself and don't rush things

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Julia

She already likes you, and you like her. Why to push things? She won't go anywhere, but if you try too hard... she might. Just wait, give it time, be patient. She obviously wants to build a relationship with you if she told you it takes time...she wants to take the time! So just have fun with her, talk to her, get to know her even better and before you know it, it'll be official.

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TheOneThatGotAway

Sounds like you are on the right track. Just continue being yourself and spend time with her when you can. Love is something that takes time to build up. It doesn't happen over night. As you bond, grow closer, and build a stronger relationship, love will develop if she is truly the right one. Just embrace the time you have with her and don't rush it. Good luck to you!

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Karacata Anam Cara

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oh my god, come on. She even told you that it takes time to build trust. So let it take time. Theres nothing you can do that will make her fall in love with you instantly except manipulating her. Be her friend and let her take the time it takes to trust you and eventually youll see if youre the right for her too

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Blueberry

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Unfortunately, you cant make someone love you. What you said was super cute, and im sure she likes you. Give it time, love doesn't just happen, you must work at it. You seem very nice and sweet, and if she isn't interested she doesn't deserve you!

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