how to deal with loneliness?

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Ive been at home all day and really missing my boyfriend. I just want to go to his house and be with him but i cant because of the snow outside. Its really awful because i feel like ive needed him today because i get anxiety when i have to stay at home all day and feel trapped. Texting him or calling him kind of just makes it worse, i think i need a distraction but one that will interest me and really make me focused but i dont really know anything. Please give me advice on loneliness and separation. I feel so pathetic asking about it because its just one day but i dont know, ive needed him today because of the now.

Category: Tags: asked January 8, 2015

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You're not pathetic--everyone needs help, meaning that there's no reason to be too hard on yourself; keep saying those things, and it won't be long until you start to believe it. As for loneliness, everyone feels loneliness, it's only natural. Truth be told, most men actually like being called by their girlfriends--it lets them know that she cares. Obviously, calling constantly or during an inappropriate time may get annoying, but unless you call him every day, he won't be mad. I'm almost always lonely when i start to think about relationships--given the fact that i'm 17 (despite what my birthdate says) and i've never been in one, but when i get lonely, I normally got to sleep so i can "reset" my brain, or try to take my mind off of it by doing other activies--IE video games. There's nothing wrong with feeling this way, it's only natural, so don't be so hard on yourself, alright? c: