How do you start this thing called relationship?

Well, putting your question of if you are gay or not aside, (I am not nearly qualified enough to answer that) I must tell you that you are in a well good place right now. To be able to start and hunt for a relationship without the burdens and feelings leftover from a previous relationship must be oh so very liberating. I wish you luck on this quest of yours! Oh how I wish I could have your mindset.

So you're question is about your sexuality? Well if what i'm assuming right now, a gay relationship, right? Well, i don't know whether or not your male but i'm just assuming as well. Either way, mingle! You aren't the only one looking for an relationship. Since finding someone who is also interested in the same sex is kind of difficult in most public scenes. Try a gay bar! People are very friendly. Now, i don't know what you're in to. But some are for more buff, built men. And others are for more of the regular basis guise. But if you're female, bars are also sufficient. You don't have to drink if you aren't comfortable with that. If you're shy, just relax. People will approach you if you look friendly. And from there, if you meet someone you really like, then it all goes from there.

Interaction is key. If you want anything...out of anything, you must first start the act of interaction. Through conversation; who do you share common interest with. Frequent some of your hobbies for those that may share them. Perhaps someone who also likes games, theories and literature.Lucky you, in the midst of discovering where your desire lust to more, male or female, you can have fun with this dating scene by figuring out which sex you feel more gravitated towards. Of course you may decide you like both just as well as one another.Great ambitions, my friend.