How do I resist my sexual urges?

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I’m an 18 year old male who still have these horny urges during mid-afternoon. Whenever I have these urges, I usually open porn in my browser and start masturbating. I never had sex but I feel like this urge was activated when a certain traumatic incident happened a few months ago.

How do I resist it or what can I do whenever I’m having it?

Tags: asked August 2, 2014

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Masturbation has been shown to mollify depression and trauma, but unfortunately, for a very short time. So next time you have any problem, try to deal with it right away and not to let it affect your life. In short, if you try to live a more happy life, it's likely that you'll not miss the euphoric feeling masturbation can provide. That's a way to prevent addiction to it. Also, whenever you have that urge, DO NOT do anything that can arouse you more. Instead, try to do something that requires lots of focusing: reading, watching action or thriller movie, or even gaming. Hurting your **** (you know what it is) enough so that the urge disappear is also suggestible, but do not overdo it :) However, the most important thing is not what to do, but how to stop yourself from succumbing to that sort of desire. Train yourself to say "No" everytime you want to do it, no matter how appealing it may seem. That's it. Believe me it'll only take about 1 week to deal with your problem. Good luck :)
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I don't think that you really have a problem except that you think these urges are triggered by a traumatic event. It is natural to have sexual urges, quite often :P That is part of what has kept our species on this planet. I think you should see a counselor, doctor, or therapist about the event if it is bothering you. As far as the sexual urges, as long as you can take care of them without hurting anyone (including yourself) and they don't take the place of friends, family, work, etc. I think you ok.
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Giving your past questions, it seems addressing masturbating too much is just the tip of the iceberg. I'm guessing you are masturbating to things you perceive as not being possible to pursue in your life, gay relationships. That would be what you need to work on, because repressing your entire sexuality is hard. So keep masturbating for now, maybe try to go to every other day, while you work on finding out how to live your sexuality safely.
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