Its difficult to explain but there’s no talking to her. I always thought of her as a lovely person, but in the last couple of years she has become friends with this woman who I can only describe as a nasty, racist bully. This woman has tried to start a fight with me at my grandmothers birthday and when I tried to talk to my mother about it was told it was obviously my fault. My mother has started taking on her characteristics and has become very selfish to the point where she has ripped the family apart, my younger sister moved out years ago and now i’m moving as far away as possible because I don’t want to end up hating her but I feel like I’m losing my mind. I feel like I’ve become the parent and she’s the child because of trying to constantly deal with her tantrums if things don’t go her way, I’m just exhausted from it all. I’ve tried talking to her, I’ve reasoned, argued and pleaded and its just no use at all! just need advice??