The whole situation started when I had a huge crush on my best friend but she told me she’s asexual and not interested. So I decided to date someone else I had been interested in for a while. We dated for two years and four months when I decided to break up because I still have a crush on my best friend. I asked her if we could date but she told me even though she has a crush on me too she’s not interested in dating, and my now ex is upset with me for breaking up with him and wanting to date someone else. I don’t want to lose either of them but I don’t know how to handle the situation either because I care for both of them very much and I love both of them.