Me and my boyfriend had a big argument today. We’ve been together for a years and 5 months, and we have a great sex relationship, and sex life.
when we argue, it gets pretty bad. well last night some guy tried to hit on me, and I dealt it my way, and today I had told my bf, not really wanting to because it wasn’t a big deal and he blew up on me.
now my bf is really hard to break through when hes mad, he sees red. Well he blew up on me today and he starts to say really hurtful things, like I don’t care, its all about me and im inconsiderate, and the fact that I told him about the guy hitting on me, I was wrong for dealing with it my way. And when I defended myself saying that I have my own voice and I’m old enough to deal with situations like that, and it wasn’t even a big a deal (I was dancing bachata, Spanish dance with a guy he doesn’t like, and I told him to keep his hand away from my waist) he told me that I cant be with someone like that. He says I do whatever I want, and its all about me.
it hurts alottt, because we love each other very much, I just wished he would at least show that hes worried about me, I can be crying on the floor and hes just keeps throwing things in my face, and saying im wrong.
I want the better for us, I know sometime I snap at him but I try to fix the problem. but hes soo hurtful when hes mad.
I know right now hes talking to his best friend, whos also my friend. so he probably will understand how I feel.
I just want him to realize he cant be so cruel just because hes mad, and even if im mad and going at him, and then I stop or I try to fix the problem, to understand that I just want to make it better for us.
so how can I keep my distance from someone im soo close to,and I don’t have and good close friends.
