how do i get over his cruel joke?

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A little back story here is needed:

Yesterday, my boyfriend a nd i were discussing an inside joke of ours that i pulled on him last week. He seductivly mentioned he.would have to punish me over that. I asked him how he would do that. He said getting me pregnant was punishment enough.

Him and i have discussed having kids before, and agreed we would wait until we’re married. We’re sexually active, and we.operate on a.trusting , hold nothing sexual secret deal. He has never came while having sex.with me, both while.wearing a condom, and while not wearing. Condom, and has never put me at risk

Thinking he.was joking ( which he was) i mentioned our agreement. He got all serious, saying he came inside of me. Naturally, i freaked out, and started panicking,almost crying.He them piped up, laughing, saying he.was only joking, and that scaring me was my punishment for earlier.

Naturally,i didn’t find the joke funny. I.chewed him out, letting him know that that wasn’t funny. He apologized,i forgave, and all is good.

I won’t leave him over this joke, i can take a joke, but how do i get over a joke that wrong? Was i right to be bothered?

Category: Tags: asked December 17, 2014

2 Answers

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Everyone has a different sense of humor. He might have thought it was funny, without realizing it would upset you like that. It's good that he apologized. Hopefully he learned something from that. It's understandable that you were bothered. Certain things are not okay to joke about and pregnancy is very serious.
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You were definitely right to be bothered, that joke wasn't funny and pregnancy is never a funny thing to joke about. However, if he knows it was wrong and apologized sincerely, try your best to forgive him and try to forget about it. Know that he was completely joking, and you have nothing to worry about. You'll get over it eventually.