how do i get myself outta love with a married guy

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Regards to my previous post, the guy i had a fling with has married and come back nd is friendly to me but i think im falling in love with him.. Im attracted to him nd i love his qualities..
what do i do? this is wrong n is taking up my mind energy nd time

Category: Tags: asked February 12, 2014

5 Answers

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Sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with, but a way to maybe get over him is to find someone new. Try dating or meeting new people, you might begin to like someone else.Maybe try meditation, yoga, exercise or music to take your mind off him- just anything that occupies your total concentration will help take him off your mind!
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I suggest now that is still in the beginning you do your best to get him off your mind. It would be less hurtful that way. He is married so better not allow yourself to dwell in those feelings. Making yourself understand over and over again that he is married and him being married won't work out is the beginning to get out of it. The good side as I've already said is that your feelings are still not fully developed towards him so it would be easier to stop it now.
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He's happily married. Don't interferre in his life. Maybe he madly loves his wife, his kids if he has any. Try to get your mind over him. The feeling you think is love, is actually infatuation. Do what you like? Drawing, skating, boxing, reading books? Anything irrelevant, that makes you remember about him. And don't talk to him, I know he would think that you are becoming rude, but sometimes in life, you just have to stand up for yourself. After a few days, the feeling which you think is 'love' will fade. Try avoiding him, before you completely fall for him. The other way, which i don't recommend, is to find someone new. What guarantee's you that he will be the one for you? What if you never fall in love with him, but he fell for you? Would it be wise, to hurt someone, inorder for you to move on? Think for a bit. Always go to a relationship, when you're ready, not when you're desperate. And before going with someone, try erasing the feeling you had for the previous one, or any person whom you like/love. :)
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as soon as now run away from him.if cheated his wife with you it may not be impossible thst he will also cheat you with another girl.those kind of men are the assholes types.more over youre just feeding his ego.behind your back he's telling people that "hey guys i can still get laid even though im already married.
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Stay away from him.