How do I fix my self confidence issuses?

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I used to be a very confident person. I loved the way I looked and what I stood for. I used to exept that sometimes I was going to make mistakes and still put my best foot forward. However recently I have lost all of my confidence, I have found myself scared to make dissions because I’m scared I’ll be wrong. I have slowly liked my apprence less and less. Now I am struggling to exept compliments from people around me

Category: asked January 26, 2015

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im no expert in anything yet nor can i give you high words and things thats going to sound fancy.. All i can truly really say is Learn to fall in love with yourself again..learn to love those things about yourself again that made you feel good about yourself ...and last accept the things you cant change but it is important that you learn to love yourself again WAKE UP EVERYDAY AND LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND TELL YOURSELF YOU LOVE YOURSELF...I know it sounds easy to say but ive been where you are and nothing else helped but me learning to accept and love me again.. Hope you get better soon if you want to talk whenever i hope to be of help and be here
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I'm only guessing here but perhaps there is a reason behind that loss of confidence. Trying to battle the reason would help in solving your issue. I'm sure you are an amazing person and your confidence had a solid reason to be there. You will get it back :)
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I agree with what's been said. Defiantly fake it until you make it! It's amazing how well something so simple really can work.
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I know exactly how you feel. When I was 16 years old my best friend was rating everyone in our friend group on a scale of 1-10 and she rated everyone else somewhere between 8 and 10, where she rated me a 4.5 ... I don't think she realized how much it affected me: I stopped eating, I started buying expensive clothes and makeup and I would try SO hard to 'be the best I could be'. I thought doing all of this would make me feel better about myself but really.. It didn't, it made me feel worse. You can try so hard to fit in, to perfect every little blemish, to change yourself but you just have to accept who you are. You can't change it! And honestly who really cares about your appearance. In High school I thought I was going to die alone if I didn't look like a supermodel (which I definitely didn't) but if you really pay attention, even the prettiest of people have flaws. Just accept yourself and focus on who you are as a person.. Not what you are.
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Well, first of all, please love yourself . If even you don't like yourself or even find yourself 'good', how will other see that 'good' in you? I know this sounds quite harsh, because I also endure the same confidence matter quite often. When I lost my confidence, I love sitting at the corner in my room and think that, even if I don't like myself, or maybe others don't like me at all, I know one person who will still like me the way I am, "God". He loves me and then I think, if someone as great as Him likes me, so why don't I try and like myself? Then I'll start thinking of people who might need my help in something I'm know, even if I'm just normal at that subject or things, because I know there's always someone who needs help in any subject. And then I'll start smiling and made my day