How do I deal with my own best friends?

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Lately, my own best friends have been so mean to me. They walk all over me, leave me out, and get mad at me if I ever hang out with other people. It’s driving me crazy, so I barely ever leave my house anymore. What do I do?

Category: asked October 27, 2013

3 Answers

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Hello, It really sucks having that happen, I've had that happen to me and I have also done it to other people. Maybe you should address this behavior calmly to your friends and tell them how they are making you feel. If you cannot do so maybe you should give them space for a while. I hope this helps!
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I've had this happen to me the best thing you can do is talk to them and tell them how you feel. If they laugh at you or make fun of you than they aren't you real best friends to begin with just a person you've grown use to and known for a long time. Remember just because you have known someone for a long time does not make them your best friend or even friend especially if they pick on you a lot or put you down all the time. Friends are suppose to help you and make you feel better about yourself and support you. I learned that from experience and I know its hard to leave someone you've known for so. Long but its worth it because you find better and more positive people. Well hope this was helpful and good luck!! :)
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I have been through that type of situations nearly my whole entire life (I'm 17 so it's not much). I was done the same exact thing as your best friends are doing to you. What I learned is that if someone treats you in a way they shouldn't, just walk away, they aren't worth it. I prefered being cofortable with new people and losing my "best" friends rather than every single day trying to stay with them and beeing really stressed out trying to not make them angry or to make them not ignore me. As silenceKills said, try talking to them about it, if they still act like selfish mean creatures I'm sure you will find better friends. If you decide to walk out of the group be aware they are going to get angry, so be strong and good luck.