How do I confront my disrespectful ex?

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So he isn’t really my ex boyfriend, but we had a thing and he wanted to be more serious and I did not so we broke it off. Anyways, I go to his fraternity a lot because my friends like to hang out there and I have a good time. I had previously asked if he minded, because he always seemed bothered when he saw me, but he never replied. He has basically been giving me the silent treatment.
Anyways I came over and after he saw me, he sent me a very inappropriate message, along the lines of “In response to your previous message, come over if you are… ” some inappropriate things that I would rather not repeat. I would like to confront him about it and tell him that he can’t be that disrespectful of me, but I am not sure how to go about it.
Any advice would be helpful, thank you :)

Category: Tags: asked May 5, 2015

4 Answers

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Just tell him to fuck off and that he has no right to talk to you at all now, because it's over.
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Since you already asked him if he had a problem with you being there and he didn't respond. I would just ignore him. He clearly wasn't mature enough to tell you if he had a problem with you. So, if he does it's no longer your problem. I'd also just ignore his messages.
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The best way to do it is just do it. If he's being disrespectful you tell him what you need and if he still doesn't want to act right there's nothing a good block off your phone and social media cant do. After that all you need to do is move on by yourself.
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Stand up for yourself...if he mistreats you then you have the right to stand up for yourself, in this case..try confronting him kindly, but if he is still being a bitch then well..do you boo boo, but aside the jokes, just try to stand up for yourself and say however you wish to say...the most important thing is to stand up for yourself