My parent’s recently went through a divorce and through it all my mom and her family loved to bash my dad. I have confidence issues and always get really upset whenever they do/did that. I need some advice on how to overcome that and how to send my family the message that I hate it when they bash dad. I love BOTH my parents and whatever goes on between them is their business. I will never hate my dad and they are NOT going to turn me against him, especially since they don’t even know his side of the story. I remain neutral because I have heard both sides of the story, but my mom and her family have accused me of “defending” my dad even though I am really just saying what I truly think of him. I would say what I truly think of mom should the need arise, but Dad and his family don’t bash mom.