How do i ask her out? (Im a girl)

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Okay so i’m bisexual, and i know she is too. I have a crush on this girl and i think theres a chance she might like me back. She talks to me most classes we have together rather than talking to people she did before. She also seems to act more herself around me compared to people who know her as well as i do, (she acts shy around them.) She has admitted (on FB) that she likes someone, but i dont know who. She is also friends with one of my bestfriends by the way. I have been told to ask her out by people on here, but if i do, how do i do it?

Category: Tags: asked June 4, 2014

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I would start with just asking her to hangout with you and see where those lead. What vibes you get from her. If you feel like she likes you as much as you like her then pick a time where you two are alone and just talk to her. Like what do you think of me? I really like you and I would like to be more than just friends. She could even surprise you and ask you out. Try not to rehearse it or over think it. Just make sure you talk from the heart. Hope this helps. Good luck!
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If you are aware of what you feel, then tell her. Tell her honestly. Sometimes it happens, sometimes not but at least you are pretty sure of what are you feeling and it shows just how mature a person can be to express its own emotions to another. Hope you make it, wish you all the best.
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If you two are already friends, then you have to make sure she doesn't misunderstand your words as "friendly". Going out with a friend is a thing, going out on a date is another. You can speak to her directly, or you could leave her a written message (serious, romantic, playful...it's up to you, the "mood" of the message depends on the type of freindship you have). You could ask her to go out with you writing a doggerel or a pun with missing words -and as she completes it she'll get to read your true message. There are many ways to ask someone out, follow your heart and you'll make the right choice :) but give it a try, the signs the she may like you back seem to be good!