How can I make my husband want me?

Go on a date with your husband relearn about him. Enjoy the time you have.

Well I've never been married, but i guess if your marriage is healthy you'll go through some bad times as well as good ones. The best thing you can do is be honest with each other. Whatever you're not feeling that's keeping you from being together, you won't be able to figure it out until you both destroy your own pride, remove yourself from the picture, and recognize what the other person's needs really are. This is what real love is. I know because it's true for relationships in general, not just marriage. God bless.

First try to feel better of yourself like trying to perhaps lose some weight. Try to find your passion in life again within yourself and then try to use the passion in you to rekindle your marriage. People are attracted to happy people and like to be around them. If you feel something is wrong and you can fix it up...example what's wrong with your marriage "You argue all the time" that's just one thing I picked up. Evaluate what makes you two argue, is it worth it? How can it be solved? Try to go things that way. I hope this advice is helpful.

Well I've never been married, but from what I saw with my parents went through and other people marriages, it can be sticky at times. You can try having date nights and begin to relearn about him OR, you can show that this is just the beginning of the marriage. I am sure your husband finds you beautiful and sexy all in one, he hasn't lost interest its just to be blunt died out from the usual routine. Try going out and getting yourself a new wardrobe, or getting your hair done. When your home wear cute booty shorts, or leggings to make him stare. Love who are, because that's the sexiest thing you could find in someone. Surprise him in the shower or when he's sleeping and WANT him to wake up, wear something sexy to sleep, or if he doesn't want to get his eyes away from the TV just get on your knees take charge and be confident. He'll go nuts. Just try both ways if not sure.

How you answer this question should answer your question as to why this is happening.

1. When is the last time he gave you a gift? Even if its flowers? Men should give a gift at least twice a month, even if its just cooking you dinner.
2. When was the last time you gave him oral sex? You would be surprised how much a great blow job can turn things around.

See what happens in relationships after you get over the stage of admitting you like each other and get comfortable with one another is that you stop doing the things that make you desire one another. You expect all the old stuff to keep working in the law of attraction, but fail to keep things fresh. If one of you is going out of your way to surprise and and comfort the other but is not receiving anything in return, then perhaps counseling is needed. But if you both just think all talk and theory will fix things, you're on course for disappointment. You two need action in your lives.

Sounds like you need to help yourself a little before you help the relationship. You are lovely, smart, caring, and worthy of love. I'd recommend going to therapy, writing in your journal, exercising, finding spiritual fulfillment, all or some of these things to help.

Second, focus on being especially kind to your husband. If he hurts your feelings or argues with you, be matter-of-fact about why you dislike it.

Third, approach him from a place of love and safety, and start small. Remember when we would cuddle and watch a movie? I miss that. Can we do it on Friday?

Therapy, journaling, and spiritual fulfillment will probably give you good guidance for how to approach your marriage as well.