How can I have a new start?And how can I be beautiful?

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Hello.I’m Stavroula.My problem is that I’m changing school and i want to have a fresh start.What should I do so my new classmates will like me?I mean I’m also ugly so ether boys will talk to me:(

Tags: asked August 31, 2014

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First of all, don't beat yourself down by saying that you are mean and ugly. You may sometimes say something rude, and you may have a giant zit right now, but that doesn't make you mean and ugly. Second, no matter what people tell you to do, stay yourself. If your classmates don't like the real you, they aren't worth bothering with. 1. Try to go shopping. Find clothes you love, and feel comfortable in! That can be a huge self-confidence boost! 2. Just smile! A smile makes everyone look 100 times better and more approachable. 3. Branch out. If nobody comes and talks to you, go talk to them! Maybe they are just uncomfortable around new people, and you can break that wall! 4. Act confident. Even if you are self-conscious, don't show it. Acting confident can make you feel more confident. Hope this helps! ~ Ciara
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I completely agree with her ^ <3 Good luck ~Dani
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JUST BE YOU! You are beautiful and unique! You don't need anyone's approval, because beauty comes from the inside not the outside. You are not ugly, you are made in the image of God. Embrace yourself and love yourself! One thing that we lack in this society is not embracing our beauty.
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To be beautiful is not something you are because of you're looks, not entirely, beautiful is a verb. It's WHAT you do, HOW you do things. To have a beautiful heart is as important, if not even more so, than a beautiful facade.

Believing you are beautiful, will make you beautiful. There is nothing more attractive to people, both platonic and romantically than confidence, to be secure in your own skin. But also, don't set your goals to people liking you because of how you look, but who you are. Be yourself and the right people will find you.

Kill them with kindness.
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ok, I know you probobly dont like hearing the whole " its whats beautilful on the inside not the ouside" no matter how true it is. I know how school works. if you're not rich and pretty, you aint nothin. but one thing you DO need to learn, is that you absolutly have to stop caring what other people think. you wanna know why you think you arent cool? because all the jerks at school tell you so. you wanna know why you think your not pretty enough? cuz all the fake girls that wear ten pounds of makeup, fake eyelashes, fake hair extensions, and fake tans make you feel like THAT is what it takes to be pretty but you know what? if all of thoes girls took all of thoes things away do you know what people would say? "hey who's the new girl?" they would have no idea that was the pretty girl they were staring at all day in 4th period just the day before. and when you graduate from school guess what else? you will never see any of thoes people ever again except on your facebook feed if you so choose to keep them there.Moral of the story: as long as you have a level head on your shoulders and you do what you love and what makes you happy. nothing else should matter. nothing.
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Never put yourself down. Trying to have a positive view on yourself, even if you don't fully believe it, will help you in the long run. Smile, and be open and friendly to new people at your school, and if you're nervous, just think of how nice you'd feel if someone came up to you and made an effort to start a conversation! It's a nice feeling, and other people will definitely feel the same. Boys opinions on you, or anyone's for that matter, do not mean that much, trust me on that. If you're still worried about how you look, go shopping, buy clothes that you truly like and wear them, no matter what anyone else might think. That is a first step to being able to look in the mirror and be pleased with what you say. Don't try and change for new people... they don't know anything about you, so show them who you really are from the start and you will make good friends that like you for who YOU are, not what other people make you.Good luck with your new school, and keep smiling!
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majority of my friends are girls but I don't know how a girl could gain friends with other girls cause I'm not a girl. But I will tell you this you are absolutely right boys will not talk to you if your ugly but they are just that "boys" little immature horny boys. Even if your were to be considered beautiful they would talk to you only for sex and would you want that? No. A man consider a girl beautiful by the way she carries herself how she treats others along with herself. An if you say that's only older guys in their late 20s it's not true I'm 21 I'm gonna guess I'm around your age group. Be positive, be nice, smile, and if the boys don't appreciate you for who u are then rember they are just "boys" don't ever beat yourself up again :) best of luck