how can I get over her?

in the last month of 2013, I was having a LDR with this beautiful girl from Scotland
she was really into me and I was really into her..

she was so dedicated to see me in person for a comic book convention in Chicago this year, talking about working 2 jobs so she can afford the flight and I was gonna take care of the rest..and if that didn’t work out. I would fly over there and hang out with her.

then everything went bad…she told me she won’t be able to make it to the con till 2015…..then everything just went…bad…AGAIN..our convos weren’t like they use to be.. ….I asked her if she still had feelings for me and she said….”I don’t know”
-_- I can’t just take that as a fucking answer..

..so I sent her another message begging her to give me a straight up answer….she didn’t really but she said “she cant make decisions without actually knowing how she feels…so staying friends might be the safest thing to do right now..”

now to be far…she’s right…LDR SUCK….ASS

I’ve been in 2…one became a bitch and the other one just stopped talking to me….dating someone closer to her

but I really….REALLY thought we where going somewhere with her

I had such a great feeling she was into me…SHE EVEN TOLD ME SHE HAD A CRUSH ON ME!…

how the fuck did it just end?…

and get this….she’s says LDR sucks…she’s talking about meeting someone in Switzerland who she has feelings for……WHAT?! LDR SUCKS….SO I’LL DATE SOME GUY WHO LIVES AT SWIZERLAND..GTGVTREDGKFC4REDGJV RYTJGTFCJT4RDGJV;TRJDSF’JCT4;RESDHTF;’WEA…..sorry…I…sorry lol

so..before I hurt myself more…how can I get over her?

we don’t really talk anymore…and that kills me…I sent her a link on facebook..it says she saw it…yet no replay….

every time I hear someone talk about Scotland…I’ll think of her

every time I hear certain songs….I think of her….

how can I get over it?

I know most people would say meet other women…I just gotta get a job…and a car…and my own place

I know the right woman will come around…but I still miss rachel..

I was so in love her

Category: Dating & Relationships asked January 10, 2014

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Robert Koredelewski jr

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Homie, lets be straight: She played you a fool at the end,and now your hurt. And it sucks. I heard this amazing tip from a place called "Relationship surgery" ( relationshipsurgery.com ). What they said was "You should gently wean away your memories of her. It wont be all at once. You need to do the events, listen to the songs, do all the things that you did with her, and just dont think of her. Eventually you will start to lose the feelings you used to have." I acutally had this same problem with a bad ex. I just did everyhting we sued to do and I eventually made her just a memory. What I do is whenever I think about her, I just stop, realign my thoughts, and continue. It is possible.

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5yxOfBlades

You could also get outside of your "online" life...start going out more, do more stuff outside the computer, then, naturally your brain and thoughts will be occupied in some other stuff rather than crying over her...if you have things to get done, like getting a job, doing some excercise and stuff, i suggest that is a good start.Good luck.

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Bragnagar

I remember you.

She is trying to let you down without hurting your feelings more, picking apart every thing she said won't help. Don't send her stuff for a while, leave the relationship aside until you feel that you are over it, and don't lie to yourself, you loved every minute of it until it started going bad, so be grateful for the good times and keep yourself busy while you get used to not talk to her everyday. With time you'll get more experience with the "cute planning things" to learn to not take it too seriously until money is actually spent on travel tickets.

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rinseandrep

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