How am i supposed to deal with this?

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I met this girl online on this site, we started talking and now we are really close. She told me about how she’s been depressed, she struggles with anorexia (or bulemia, im not sure). She was raped by her fathers friend who was supposed to take care of her when her father was deported. She lives with a verbally abusive uncle. I struggle with depression as well, and im aware that we probable got so close so fast for the same reason, a need for codependence. Her uncle didn’t like us talking until i talked to him and he contacted her father. But now shes telling me that shes getting into physical fights with her brothers over me. I know that she would probably be better off if i stopped talking to her. But i dont want to, and at the same time, i dont know how stable she is, i dont know how she would react if i stopped talking to her. How am i supposed to deal with this?

Category: asked March 3, 2015

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if its better for her that you dont talk to each other for a while then its fine because she might be getting into more physical fights with her siblings but if she still does want to talk to you even if there are fights then thats her decision but if ever you guys wont be contacting each other for a while you just have to remind her that you are always there for her when she needs someone to open up to. PS sorry if I give terrible advice