HELP ME BEFORE I LOOSE IT!!!! WIll I EVER GET OVER HER?

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Im a 24 year old female and so is my bestfriend we’ve know each other for ten

years. We went to school together then after we left school we hung out like crazy

and partied hard then we began experimenting sexually now im the fool deeply in

love with her from ever since the problem is I know we’re getting older

and we will have families one day but truth is I’m sort of AFRAID to accept that one

day she’d be gone without me dont get me wrong i dont have a problem with her

having a man cuz I cant give her what a man can its just am afraid

She’s gonna forget about me :( because everytime she gets a man

she tosses me to the side and only when shit gets rough she comes back. SIgh

I FEEL LIKE SUCH AN IDIOT. By the way I once went with another woman

to see if im gay but truth is i had no emotion towards her. I just feel like im in love

with her and her alone. She was my first female sexually and I do like men to #HELP

Category: Tags: asked January 10, 2014

2 Answers

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First of all i can understand that you're in love with her, but i think you should take the hint when she ditches you for a man and only comes running back to you when things don't work out. It seems to me like somebody might be taking for a ride. However since you are best friends and have been for 10 years, it would be best if you sat down and spoke to her about whatever it is that you're feeling. Remember communication is important and maybe if you get it out in the open with her, things might actually turn out your way.But if she doesn't reciprocate your feelings it's still ok because that means that someone is waiting for you out there to give you the love you deserve and it will be hard to get over her, but in the end it'll be worth. Good luck with her, i hope everything turns out ok for you and remember, speaking to her will really take a load off your mind and even sort things out between you two :)
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At this point it would be best just to be honest with her. How will you know what to do if you're stuck at a wall with no answers? Honestly it can go two ways, you can tell her and she will accept it and talk to you about it or she won't know how to react and won't do anything at all. I know it is a big step and something really nerve racking but sooner or later you're going to have to do it you know? You have a lot going on but once this is out of the way, you will surely be able to figure everything out from there. Good luck, message me if you need anything!