Guy Issues, Help!

So I met this guy and one night we went for coffee then went back to his place to watch a movie, but we ended up having sex, I never planned for it to happen. I told before that I am going back home for 4 months at the end of the month and he said it was fine and we should hang out anyways. Then I made the mistake of askig if he wanted to be cuddle buddies, and he said that he wouldnt be someones fuck buddy after he thought about it for a couple days. I finally got him to talk to me again and I dont know what to do now cause I actually like him and he said he wanted more then FWB and now he says he wont do long distance

Tags: Advice boy drama asked April 6, 2013

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AlA

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Well this seems like the ball is in your court. However, you should never put someone in the situation of being essentially a "fuck buddy" and only want eachother for those reasons. It's not fair on each other and it can end up hurting future relationships you may have.That being said, however, it did seem that he would be open to some sort of relationship, he didn't say "no" he said he just didn't like the sort of relationships you suggested.I wish you luck, you got this, girl!

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rayman1030

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^Thank You! I sort of worked it out, just friends and keeping in touch while I am gone and then seeing how it goes when I get back : ) I think he forgave me.

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AlA