I’ve been in a relationship with someone for nearly 3 years. we’ve had our huge ups and downs but we’ve always worked through everything. We were planning on moving in together and the pressure got to her and she slept with someone else..
I’m going to stay and work on things, but i never would’ve imagined she would do this and i don’t know how to kiss her or have sex with her or be in the room it happened without thinking about it. She also works with the person she cheated on me with. And we have barely had sex in over a year.. So it bothers me that she gave someone else things she should be giving me when i’ve been working so hard to make this work. I don’t know how to move passed it. I scheduled a couples therapy session for us for Friday. I love her i just don’t know how to not picture images of them having sex and be okay with her working with her and having mutual friends…Advice?