friend advice?

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okay so my fucking “best friends” have ignored me for the whole damn week. like, my friend elaina was in florida last week and she was having really bad issues, but her mom made her leave her phone and computer and all technology home, so i had no way of contacting her. but she called our other friend renae, and called her ex boyfriend. but she couldn’t call me for 5 damn minutes. and they fucking make plans without me all the time! AND FUCKING ALSO one night like last month my boyfriend and i were having rely bad issues; he was threatening suicide and i was at renae’s house and he wouldn’t answer the phone and i was sitting in the corner crying my eyes out and THEY JUST SAT THERE FUCKING WATCHING TV. FUCKING SERIOUSLY. and they fucking made plans without me tonight; i asked yesterday if we were all hanging out and no one answered. and i was trying to text both of them tonight and they didn’t answer. but they fucking snapchat a picture of them at elainas birthday party i wasnt fucking invited to
im so pissed off/ upset.

i want to confront them about it, but I know if I do i’ll be pissed off and come off as a bitch and thats not what I’m about, I just know I won’t be calm about it.

Category: Tags: asked October 17, 2014

5 Answers

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Honestly, just ignore them, go find/make new friends, and if they come running back for you, confront them, if they don't then just forget about them (:
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I get where you're coming from. I went through the same thing for six years. I still have a few issues with them but no as many. My soulution was to do home school so that I woun't have to be around them but I woun't have to be alone or feel uncomfortable trying to make new friends. My advise would be to stop being around them all together because it's not likely that confronting them will do any good. It was my experiance that it only made it worse. It is ultimatly your choice of course so do what you feel is best. I wish you luck. And if you need someone to talk to feel free to message me.
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People get busy, people get distracted, if you do want to confront them, say, hey, i was kind of dissapointed when i didn't hear from you yesterday..... they respond.... (you respond) yeah, it kind of hurt my feelings actually because i was in a bad mood and needed to talk to you..... see, you don't talk at them as if you are mad even if you are mad, you try to be calm like i just said and say how you feel
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I would talk to them about it, if they deny it or act like assholes find new friends. If the apologize you should have a long talk to them about friendships.
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thank you all. this helped so much :-)