Everyone hates me?

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I’m not sure if this is the right category. Whenever I meet new people, they always seem to like me at first but eventually they just end up hating me. I try to be nice to people but it doesn’t seem to work. It’s gotten to the point where I can’t be bothered trying to make friends because I know they’ll just end up hating me at one point or the other. I seriously have no friends and I’m sick of it! What can I do?

Category: Tags: asked May 10, 2015

11 Answers

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Why will they hate you, anyways don't be upset if they aren't your friends then OK you should never stop looking for good people to be with and friends. I hope you find good people soon, stay strong :)
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I've been through a similar feeling before. In fact, I'm still insecure about how people will like me now. Not everyone hates you, not everyone is the same like that. I had the same feeling, and later, I found that I had no reason to feel that way. It's easy to put yourself down and convince yourself that everyone hates and notices your insecurities as much as you do. But in reality, even when you think nobody likes you, or you aren't pretty or popular enough, somebody else is thinking the exact opposite of you. And it's strongly likely that most people you think dislike you, actually really like you. It sounds weird, but it happens a lot. And, hey, some people just appear that way. Some people have trouble showing their real feelings about someone, and/or just don't feel comfortable letting you know how much they like you or envy you. Even if you're sure that person doesn't like you, you can still try to get them to like you (while giving them their space and not appearing desperate, insecure, or stalkish.. :) ).
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Of course, not everyone hates you, this has happened to me too, don't change yourself for someone else, keep yourself the way you are. If they can't like you for who you really are, then they don't like the real you, and the real you is beautiful so that's their problem. It's easy to put yourself down and tell yourself words that aren't real, so you begin thinking things and thoughts that shouldn't be there and aren't real. Sometimes people can just have a hard time showing their feelings, or being friendly and might have trouble with that, however, I'll always be here, feel free to message me anytime! @lonely123456789
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Hey, no, of course not everyone hates you, sometimes this sort of things happen, it had happened to me too, there are people who for one or another reason end up not being interested in you, that's not because you are bad, that's a problem on their side, as the other girl said, you have to keep being nice just for yourself, you should be yourself, you shouldn't be nice to people just to try to make everybody like you, because not everyone will like you, and in the end some might even end up taking adventage of you, so yeah, never change who you are for anyone. And well, if you ever want a friend you can add me and message me too! I will not leave you ever ok? :)
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Thanks @mysteriouschildsb and @michael18 :)
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You're welcome! :)And remember, stay strong and be yourself! Don't ever change for anyone, EVER! Ok?
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Thanks @rudrat123 :)
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I am the opposite, most people like me when they meet me, but if they really knew me they would be justified in hating me.
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Are you sure everybody ends up hating you? Is it possible that you get away before they reject you? Well, first you have to figure this out, and then get someone that knows you really well to help you analyze what's going on…
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Are you sure everybody ends up hating you? Is it possible that you get away before they reject you? Well, first you have to figure this out, and then get someone that knows you really well to help you analyze what's going on…
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I feel the same way and i don't know what to do can someone help me please