Dumb fighting with boyfriend

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We’ve been having pathetic fights we’ve been together for over 4 months, and im scared hes losing trust in me! he told me about a girl who got raped and said to not tell anyone and i told my bestfriend who has been for over 8 years and i trust her with my life, i get really upset with him alot and say alot of stupid things about him and he says them back, he called me a dumbass:/ and i of course believe it help! i need to know how to keep calm got any tips or tips to stop fighting

Category: Tags: asked December 9, 2013

4 Answers

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Don't hold on things said in heated moments, don't make promises you can't keep, try to make peace by the end of the day.
Read on how to fight properly: http://captainawkward.com/2013/11/25/524-how-do-i-fight-with-my-partner-without-ruining-everything/
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Well, this isn't good. But you two have to sit down and talk about what's wrong in the relationship. But you guys have to do it when both are in a good mood. Also, he asked you to not tell anyone, it wasn't a nice thing to tell to other person. Ok that it was to your bestfriend, but he asked for it.Try not to take any action while both are mad with each other (or any other thing), it isn't a good thing to do while your mind isn't focused or are already bothered about something else.When you see that you're starting to fight, try to take some time to breathe. Take some minutes, calm down and talk later.
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I didn't understand. Sorry =\
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One of the things that always helps me with fighting in relationships is when I feel myself getting mad or annoyed or upset.. I take a deep breath and let it go for the moment.. If Im still mad at it like an hour or so later then I will say something but most of the time I just forget about it and let it go. Alot of times the fights arent worth it at all but you just get so annoyed you feel you have to say something... You dont. Just take a minute and think 'Is this something I really want to argue about. Is it worth it?' and then, if its still bothering you a while later then say something.