does she like me ?

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So I’ve been talking to this girl for about a month and I quiet like her and I think she might like me too. We equally messages each and we talk about random things, she also sends me links to things we discussed ages ago and messages me while she’s at work. I’ve met up with her twice which both times have been nice, once for drinks and the cinema. I’d like to meet up again, but I’ve asked twice already and I don’t want to seem clingy. I also don’t want to rush into things as I think she just came out of a relationship a few months ago.

So does she like me? and would it be clingy if I asked her to meet again.

Category: asked June 24, 2015

2 Answers

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Let her come to you. Repeatedly asking someone out, in my experience, tends to push people away when you want the exact opposite. I've learned to be open and honest when you truly like someone because otherwise they might get the wrong impression. Does she know how you feel about her? And if you are worried about being too clingy, then maybe it has a little bit to do with your insecurities. You stated in your description that you don't want to rush into things, so why rush it? If you like her then you should respect her time and space so maybe don't ask her out again if she's not responding. Being honest about how you feel about her will help you figure out what exactly she wants. Best of luck!Linds
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Hey Bjorn,

Like @Linds said, in my opinion there indeed is no need to rush, especially if you get a long really well. To me that's a sign of having genuine interest in eachother and not just a silly, lust-driven crush.

Just keep talking to eachother and let the flow of your feelings towards one another dictate the pace of your relationship. Just keep comforting or make her laugh when she needs it and when she's ready she'll be the one to ask if you guys could see eachother some more.

If you give her the time to process her previous relationship and she gives clear signs she wants you close to her, she'll value it even more when you do so.

Just go with the flow and if you feel it's taking too long, just tell her how you feel about it. Maybe she feels the same way but doesn't know how to act on those feelings.
But for now, don't rush it and be a gentleman in every way you can :).

Good luck!