Do You Ever Feel This Way?

So last night I had a dream about a guy that I’ve had a crush on for a while. I don’t really like him because one time I told him that I like him and he said he just wanted to be friends. I got pretty much over him but still think about him sometimes and get really sad when I do because I really liked him. So in my dream, he asked me out and told me that he liked me and I was beautiful and the rest is history. So basically it was a happily ever after. Do you think this might mean something? Am I not over him like I thought I was? I don’t know what to think anymore because even though I think of him sometimes, I always try to push it to the back of my mind. Please give any advice if you have any. Thanks.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked August 2, 2014

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Amber

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Dreams are simply the mind filtering through the information that runs through it. it is very much the same as a computer running a defragmentation session; it condenses and consolidates information. There isn't much meaning beyond that. If you have something that commonly troubles you, expect to commonly dream about it.

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Humanist Hope

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Hi! First of all, it's 100% normal to dream of someone you like/ used to like and of happily ever afters. Thats the point of dreams. Its just like an outlet for your thoughts and desires. Just because you dreamed about him doesn't mean you aren't over him because after really liking someone its hard to just completely stop thinking about them. Often, even after you're finally over someone you still have a couple of "what ifs" stuck in your head that make their way into your dreams.

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Gaby

Hey. It's completely normal to dream about someone you obviously cared about! You're obviously hurt he doesn't feel the same way. Try to put yourself out there. See if you can meet other/new people to distract yourself. Before you know it, you'll meet someone. In the meantime, don't read too much into the dream(s).All the best etc.

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