do i like my best friend in a romantic way?

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i go to a private therapy school and i have a best friend there named Ryan we’ve been friends since the first day (we see each-other 5 days a week) and we are in the same classes even anyways I’ve known him for quite some time now and i spend most of my time with him and we have become very “close” to each-other and often sit together do things together etc. but i feel trusting and happy towards him like i don’t feel around anyone else do i have a crush on him or is it just deep friendship i’m feeling? (in fact we often flirt with each-other too)

Category: asked May 17, 2015

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I wouldn't exactly call it a crush based upon what you have told me, but you two do seem to spend an awful amount of time together and that's good, I also feel glad that you feel trusting and happy towards him. Perhaps if it is a deep friendship that you are feeling, it's a healthy and strong one. You said that you only feel this way about him? Have you been close friends with a boy before? I can't know exactly how you're feeling and you yourself are confused about these feelings. But the thought about him being more than a friend to you has already slightly entered your mind and so I suggest trying to explore your feelings more. Hope I could help even a little bit!
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I'm sorry, I just typed up 13 paragraphs...but I just realized it's all potentially going in the wrong direction, since I wrote it as though you were a (girl dealing with a guy) and for I know your a (guy dealing with a guy).

In that case my 13 paragraphs are mostly worthless, so I backed them up and hit delete. I didn't see, are you a boy or a girl? It's weird how MOST of the time people will fill out their profile (barely), but at least put their age...but then they ask romantic, relationship questions, etc....and I mean, we need to know this!

I can't make you a suit if I don't take your measurements! So PLEASE just post (I'm a boy) or (I'm a girl) to let me know, along with Lauren and everyone else who tries to give you advice. Thank you so much!