Im 20 years old and have not had relationships in terms of dating. A 21 year old girl i work with who seems like my type and who seems like someone I would date, but she has a 1 year old kid. Im not neutral about having kids but I dont know if now would be a good time to get into a relationship with someone who has a kid and or a good first relationship. And while I have not had a dating relationship I would not say I am totally naive when it comes to relationships though.