divorce? im pregnant

How do you know when enough is enough? My husband and I non stop fight. He comes home everyday in a bad mood except maybe once a week. I can’t believe how much he has changed from the man I married. We have been married only a year and I’m 8 months pregnant, wishing I wasn’t. We planned the pregnancy but since about three months he has changed jobs and we have moved. He thinks I’m being lazy because I’m not moving enough boxes or things to our new place. He has put me down about different parts of my body since the pregnancy and always seems so angry. He gets very easily frustrated, rage, yells, and gets road rage now. Is this a stage or a new man? Should I be considering divorce?

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Anonymous

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I definitely agree with Sugargirl, but I would have to say that you should move out or on with your life, if you have tried other alternatives. Such as talking calmly about it (which is very hard and requires a lot of patience with abusive men) or therapy, whether it's on your own or with him. If he doesn't agree to any solutions then maybe you should go alone and see other solutions from someone else, that way you will have the chance to rant all you want, have someone's full attention and gain your self confidence back. I'm very sorry you are going through this right now. I would also try to ask him why he's so angry recently, maybe it's stress because he's becoming a new parent? Money issues? It's always helpful to find the root of the issue! I hope it all works out.

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