Did I ruin our friendship?

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Okay so I’ve liked this guy named Cole for forever, but for awhile I liked this guy named Braeden. Braeden and I started going out, but then we broke up. About a week later Cole asks me out in front of Braeden, and I said no cause Braeden was right there. The next day I told Cole why I said no, and he already was dating someone else by then. She broke up with him for someone else, and I thought I’d tell him how I felt about him. So I sent him a long text saying how I felt, and I thought he’d ask me out. He told me that he was surprised that I felt that way about him, but he didn’t feel all the same about me, but that he is glad that we’re friends. Usually we play around and flirt in the hallways, but now when I poke him or something, he gives me a dirty look, and tells me to either go away, or leave him alone. I’m afraid I ruined our whole friendship that we had because I told him how I felt about him.

Category: asked May 6, 2014

4 Answers

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It may have scared him a little because he had no idea. Now, he probably doesn't want to give you the wrong idea by playfully flirting back. You should talk to him and let him know that you want to go back to the way things were. Tell him you don't want things to be awkward because of what you said and try and move past it. It may take a little bit of time, but you'll get back there!
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Maybe he felt rejected when you said no so he's trying to get you back but without realising how much he is actually hurting you. Talk to him and let him know x
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Me to Cole: Well, I feel like ever since I told you how I felt about you, there has been more tension between us and if that's the case I would like things to go back to the way they were. Cole to me: Look, I can't give you everything you want and I can't keep kidding around cause I feel like I'm playing you.What is that supposed to mean?
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Based on what he said in the previous post ^^^^^I would say that he's worried that if he keeps being flirtatious with you that you will get the wrong message, as he had told you that he doesn't feel the same way, maybe that's why he keeps giving you dirty looks when you try and be flirty, maybe he just wants to stay friends and he wants that the be the message and he's worried flirting would ruin it