Caring too much?

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So I’m a really weird 15 year old girl. I’ve never really really cared about people. That makes me sound really cold but it’s kind of true. I love all my friends very much and I’d give my life for theirs in a heart beat but I don’t really talk to them or worry about them or anything like that. But a year ago I met this guy whom I really liked at first. He didn’t like me, of course, and so we just became friends. He is now one of my 2 best friends. He is the first person to show that they worry about me and care about me and would be very upset if something were to happen to me. Of course for me worrying and caring is new and I have trouble accepting his and even more expressing mine. I tell him I love him very often (he always says it back) but I also do this thing where if he just stops texting I’ll get worried. I’ll text him tons and worry about whether he’s okay or not…is this normal? Am I expressing myself weirdly?

Category: Tags: asked September 5, 2013

2 Answers

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You are fine. When someone stops texting, they are probably busy or just don't feel like texting.. I get that way sometimes, but you gotta understand he is your friend and the only you can keep it like that is to act like a friend. Don't get so close. if both of you want to be more then friends that's fine. If you want to and he doesn't or vise versa then it wont work and you will lose a friend. Just continue to express yourself how ever you want. :)
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I think at this age it's normal, you're learning how to express yourself and you get to worry about him. That's a good advance. But yeah, sometimes they're just busy or something, try to distract your mind a bit while that and don't worry too much about it.