Hey guys, i just discoverd this beautiful community and wanted some help about my situation if you want.
It may sounds insane, but i had a crush on the same girl for about 7 years from now. That’s right, 7 awful years. I tried multiple times to forget her, but i simply can’t, i’ve met multiple “interesting” girls during this period, but none of them was comparable to her.
I love her, i know that a simple thing like a smile towards me, or an answered text message can either make my day or let it down, plus half the time i am thinking about her.
I know i am at the limit of obsession, and it’s not normal, but i can’t do anything about it, and i am 90% sure she knows.
We get along pretty well, we talk, we joke and we have same ideas and opinion, but we never search each other (we go to the same class, so naturally we stay in contct for half of the day).
So here i am, asking you help. I’ve always been the guy who gives advice about everything, the one you talk with if you have a problem, but this time, I want an advice, i want someone who tell me what to do, i need it.
So: what should i do? Ask her out? Compliment her? Spend more time with her?
Help me,please. Don’t tell me to give up and carry on, because trust me, i tried and it didn’t work, and the act i see her almoat every day doesn’t help.
I don’t have any problem talking to her, the most difficult thing would stay alone with her, not because i am shy, but because it’s impossible to finde the time.
I know i sound desperate, almost stupod, but that’s because i am.
Every last bit of advice would be gladly welcome
I am aware that you need a lot more information about this situation to give a soild advice. But if you are willing to help me, i will give you every information you’ll require.
P.S: sorry for bad grammar, english is not my first language, so yeah
EDIT:thanks for tha answers, i know i need to tell her how i feel, but the problem is i can barely find the time to talk with her alone, plus:
You can tell it on the go, you have to take quite a long time to explain this
You need to be alone, otherwise i will be awkward
You have to say directly to the other person, it’s too important to be said via text or even via phone
That is my real problem, how can i convince her to spend some time alone. How can i ask her out. If you eant, i will provide any information necessary