Boys are confusing, advice?

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I need advice. I’ve liked the same guy for as long as I can remember. We are really good friends, too. I’ve tried telling him I like him over text, and I sent a paragraph about my feelings for him, but the iMessage was blank when he received it. We are together every week for a bowling league, but I don’t want to talk about anything there. He’s like kinda immature about stuff like this, and I don’t want to make our friendship weird. Help me out please?

Category: Tags: asked December 11, 2013

4 Answers

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The fact that the sent iMessage was blank must've been a sign that it's just not the time to tell him yet. If he's immature about things like this, I would wait it off. I wouldn't want you to tell him then he takes it as some joke, you know what I'm saying? If you want, you can still try and tell him so way or another but me, myself, I would wait until the time is right and you'll know when that time comes.
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why are you trying to do this by text or a note? If you really want to go for it then you should tell him how you feel right to his face. Confidence and no fear is what he will see and will think sure this is great idea to be more than friends.
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I know exactly how you feel. It really doesn't hurt but to try. If he was truly your friend, he wouldn't be so immature especially when you're telling him the feelings you have for him. I know you don't want to ruin your friendship with him, but sometimes taking a risk is a good thing. Maybe you'll find out he likes you too. If it doesn't turn out the way you expected it to be, just get up, brush off your knees, & move on. But hey, YOU TRIED, & that's all that matters. He doesn't like you? pffft!! Then another guy will! Just give it a shot. Oh & BTW you DON'T have to tell him right to his face. You can if you want to, but personally, i think it's just gunna lead to awkward said moments. Good luck (:
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How was it blank when he received it? Maybe he just told you that so things wouldn't be awkward between you two (you said he was immature about that stuff). Or maybe I'm just jumping to conclusions. Anyway, if this is that important to you then you should just come out with it or you'll never really know and I think that is more tormenting.