Boyfriend’s brother hates me

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So a couple days ago I posted about a fight I had with my boyfriend’s brother’s girlfriend. While the girlfriend and I didn’t smooth things over the fight is done. My boyfriend’s parents have also drawn a line on the issue and told my boyfriend’s brother to drop it and stop telling them about the issue after it came out that his girlfriend was lying about me and had texted my boyfriend telling him to leave me. In the process of this my boyfriend and his brother had an argument. His brother basically told him that he hates me and that he thinks I’m a bad person and he’ll never like me or approve of the relationship no matter what my boyfriend or I do. I never tried to start a fight with the girlfriend and I’ve been trying for days now to help my boyfriend smooth things over with his brother. His parents sat down with us and apologized for intially picking sides and after they tried to talk to his brother and the girlfriend. They then figured out that she had been lying about me and instigating the fight between my boyfriend and his brother. I’m honestly not sure what to do at this point. I don’t think I can ever be friends with the girlfriend or talk to her again but I want my boyfriend and his brother to have a good relationship. What do I do to help this? How should I handle being around his brother if anything awkward comes up or he gets angry at me?

Category: asked September 17, 2015

2 Answers

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This is not for you to solve. You cannot fix their fight. Leave it alone and support your boyfriend by urging him to do the right thing.
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I totally agree with Jonathan here, let him handle things. Just try to be as supportive as you can be, he'll need his gf support