boy trouble?

iv’e been talking to my very close friend for a while now. were not technically dating because he said he doesnt want to put a label on us, which i understand. were both still in high school so yes im young and nieve and worried. he usually starts our conversations over facebook and is always so excited to talk to me. he’s come over my house a couple times, we’ve kissed, blah blah blah. but lately i feel like he’s not really in the mood to talk to me and he’s just been kinda rude. i don’t feel like ive done anything wrong, but i used to be so comfortable around him and now i feel like whatever i say he’s going to yell at me for it. i don’t want to be annoying but i also don’t want to make it look like im avoiding him or im uninterested. please help?

Category: Dating & Relationships asked July 28, 2014

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modt

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Whatever you do, don't let him push you around, you say you feel like he'll yell at you - Has he done so before? You could try to take the initiative and start the conversations.

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The Giggle Blizzard

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He may be trying to send you a message that he really doesn't want to have to do with you, but doesn't know how to say it. I would send him a straight up text or call him and say, "I am getting mixed messages if you want to talk again and be friends please text me, if you don't text me back by ______ then I will assume that you don't want to talk anymore." And just see what happens. Best of luck :)

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Sempre

Guys aren't usually communicative. They won't try to tell you if they don't consider it intresting for you. I think the best way to find out is just asking. Sincere and simple words may invite him to tell you what's going on in his life without pushing him. It's likely that something unrelated to you happened and he's affected, but still won't tell you. Good luck!

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Agnes, My Dear.

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Hmm... I'm not a boy expert but could be that he's cheating on you. Which I hope not of course, but could be. It's happened to me a few times and it always ends up that the other guy is cheating. I hope this isn't the case but maybe you should do a little stalking... or just asking but stalking is my method ;)

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jordan2198

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