So I tend to be quite friendly with people I like. I give hugs when needed, I genuinely care about them and about their hobbies, lives, etc.
Only problem is I’m a girl and most of my friends are guys. I wind up being hit on by a few of them and a female ‘friend’ wound up exploding at me, calling me a slut, when all I’ve done is hug people at most.
I don’t understand it though, I’m not flirting, yet some guys think I am, and that girl certainly thinks so. I don’t see how just giving a hug to a friend when they’re upset or after being nice is too much, or how actually paying attention to people is wrong.
I’m sure I’m fine and it’s really that one girl with the problem since she tends to be rather nasty, but I have to wonder if I’m being too friendly.