Being bisexual isn't bad. You like who you like and if that means liking both men and women, then that's perfectly fine. It's your decision whether you want to tell people or not. If you want to tell them, just sit down with them, preferably in a public place where they can't make a scene. Just tell them with a calm voice that you are bisexual. As for defining bisexuality, it simply means that you're attracted to both men and women. You don't choose who you fall for. If you would fall for men and women, then that's how it is. Don't let anyone tell you that it's bad, because it's not.