My mom met this guy, about four years ago, and he’s a complete douche bag.
He’s in his 50s as a karaoke dj, who swears he’s big shit because he fuck with trashy people from Redneck bars basically (not trying to offend) especially cheap woman. And heres my mom whos worked and struggle all her life, got divorced left with two kids, blah blah. She’s a strong lady, but this fucking prick is so disrespectful.
There was a time where we had gone to one of his friends family barbeques in Staten island and, he gave some fucked up info, and my mom found out some shit he lied about, so she wanted to put him on the spot, but when their alone. And he looks at her phone to see what shes doing, calls her a stalker and curses at her in front of everyone. And everyone is so stunned of what he did. We get into the car and he’s screaming at my mother cursing at her, in front of me, so I Told him to shut the fuck up and don’t talk to mom mother like that and stepped out of the car before I beat the shit out of the both of them… my mom is a idiot when it came to this guy, he’s a piece of shit, he’s obnoxious and rude. That same night I had to apologize to him because my mom wanted him in her life……
Now my mom isn’t as bad. She use to go out like crazy, I mean I dont mind it. I was in high school, and she never had the chance to live that life cause she was always taking care of someone, now she doesn’t really go crazy, I mean she deals with her things the way she wants them. She knows how I feel about him and the fact I dont like him at all.
He has no respect, and recently he got kicked out of his roommates house…….. so she offered to stay at our place. Now
He doesn’t lift a finger, my mother cooks for him at whatever time, even if its 4am and I’m sleeping, he walks into my room with no permission, he used to look at my phone when I was texting someone, he likes to listen to the conversations I have with people, he creates little story, he doesn’t even pay anything, he gets mad when my mother is speaking Spanish to me because he doesn’t understand, when my brother and his wife and two kids come by he doesn’t leave the bedroom, oh and he’s staying in my moms room, he has all his hit cluttered in one room and out garage, he just doesn’t do anything for himself….. this fucking cunt ain’t shit.
It gets to the point, I cant be out late because he would give my mother shit if I was out late. So now, my mother is strict already, but I’m 18 years old and a college student, my mom needs to let me be sometimes, and she tryst but if he disagrees or outs his two cents in its a no.
A hour ago, I was sleeping, and my mother woke me up screaming in my face saying you better not have slept over some guy named juan house (I recently slept over my friends house) and I need to meet this fucking girl……. mean while before that she had seem me before and did not mention it. And the only way I know it would be him because, last night I was skyping with my friend, and I heard him standing at my door, until I mentioned I feel like someone’s out my door, I heard him walk away, mean while we live in 2 bedroom apartment, that’s not huge……… I wanted to flip shit.
So after I tell my mom, once again that I was at my friends house. She just backs away.
See if I put this guy in his spot, I would get shit from my mom. And I would either hit someone or something. Or even pack my shit and leave. I dont want to do that, so all I can do is stay quiet. I don’t have any one to rant to, I don’t know what to do. I could express it to my mother any way, and she’ll seem like a hard ass and agree, but once he’s there she does it all over again.
I can’t deal with this, can someone please help me, I don’t want to leave my home because of some irrelevant peace of vermin
