Ok,so whenever I was messaging with a friend, if I don’t get a reply soon or on time. I’ll get really paranoid,a little anxious and depressed about it, I’ll think that he might not want to talk to me anymore or find me annoying and a lot of other reasons. But as soon as i get a reply,I feel a lot better. I hate feeling this way, even now I’ve just message a friend of mine and he usually reply me immediately at this time but today he still havent reply my message after an hour. I had this feeling like he may not want to talk to me anymore. Also whenever I talk alot with him and he replied me with just a simple short response, I can’t help to think he’s trying to be nice to reply me and actually doesn’t really bother talking to me at all. Am I being too clingy and overly attached that eventually makes someone doesnt want to talk to me ?
Edit: thanks for the answers guys. It makes me think a lot and I realize that I do have too much time in my hands now since I’m waiting for college to start. Like some of you said, I do feel I wasn’t good enough and I try to always talk about their stuff to keep them talking and interested. And also I don’t have a real life friends to chat with actually, I usually went to chatting sites and exchange our messenger user and chat there because I feel a little lonely and want someone to talk to.