Am i making a mistake in my sexuality?

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Earlier in the year i told my best friend my sexuality, and he hasn’t spoken to me since. He also avoids me every time i try to talk to him. Is being Bisexual really that wrong. I really want my friend back, but i dont know what to do.

Category: asked January 1, 2014

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If he didn't accept your sexuality, he isn't a very good friend. Find someone who accepts you for you. Not everyone is going to take your sexuality nicely unless you're heterosexual. That's just the sad truth. As for asking if it is a mistake, that's up to you to decide. Go and find a true friend, don't waste your time with someone who no longer wants to talk to you for giving away a sensitive piece of information about you (because sexuality shouldn't be something you just wear on your neck, especially if it defies society's conventions). Good luck! :) And just know you have a friend in me!
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you should NOT question your sexuality, just because of the judgements of others. the only reason people would ever make fun of you or stop speaking to you because of your sexuality is because they are afraid of it because they dont think the same way you do and they dont understand it. its okay! stay true, stay you..
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Being bisexual is not wrong at all. You can't help how you feel. If your friend doesn't accept you for who you are, he's not a very good friend. You can meet plenty other people who will accept you for who you are. You don't need someone in your life who's going to accept you under only certain conditions. I've never been in your position so I have no idea what it's like, that's just my opinion.
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I know this may sound a little harsh but I can't word it any different, that person isn't a friend to you if they can't accept you for who you are, sexual preferences and all. I don't think the person is worth chasing. Sadly you'll meet people who are against this kind of thing, you'll also however find many of those who'll love you and accept you for who you are. Being bisexual isn't wrong, it's natural and it's a part of who you are, never be ashamed.
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Hello there, you did the right thing in reaching out.

Contemporary views of alternate sexuality are held with a terribly negative stigma attached to them, most of those attached to religion.

No. There is nothing wrong with bisexuality. I am bisexual, and it was a hard time cutting the people out of my life who didn't support me. It is not "unnatural" or "immoral", it is who you are, and you need to make friends with people who support you.

Don't let anyone beat you down, do not be afraid to develop who you are, and do not let anyone make you afraid or ashamed to live your life.

Please keep in contact and let us know how things progress. Never forget that you matter, and you are not alone.
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He's obviously not a good friend if he stopped talking to you. Go up to him and ask him if he has a problem with you. Bisexuality isn't a bad thing at all, and it's not your fault that he didn't accept it
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Don't question your sexuality. 1: if he can't accept you for who you are,he's not a real good friend 2: don't try to change who you are or don't question it. They're be people who will like you and ones that don't. But their opinion doesn't matter it's only what you think that does