My bf wants to move out of state, which I’m fine with. But he wants to move to a city on the other side of the contenent where he went to college. He already has several connections and friends there. I would be starting cometely from scratch, not knowing anyone there except his college buddies. I feel like it’s not fair of him to ask me to quit my program in school and my job and to leave everyone I know behind when he isn’t willing to make the same sacrifices and start over from scratch also. I feel like an outsider when we are his college buddies and I feel like this could cause some issues in our relationship. Am I being petty or pestimistic about this particular location? In the end I told him I would give it a trial run, but I have this terrible feeling that I’m going to be unhappy.