Am i being a good girlfriend?

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im just curious if i am pushing my boyfriend away. we’ve been together for 11 months and i find myself deeply inlove with him, i mean i literally do anything for him. anything he ask me to, i’ll do it. i always think of him, i always want to talk to him. at first i can tell that he really loves talkin to me and i can see his efforts to get my attention but lately i feel like my expectations to him are so high because im willing to do that much for him but he can’t so i always ended up getting angry at him at really simple things. i don’t think thats right but i feel like he’s takin me for granted because he i can’t live without him, what should i do? i mean im lost.

Category: Tags: asked June 25, 2014

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I think it's wonderful that you're willing to do anything for him and it shows how committed you are to your relationship. You've got to remember though, to think about yourself too while it's important for you and your boyfriend to support each other, you can't become totally dependent on one another. Now, think about your expectations of him, are they reasonable and easy things for him to do? Ask yourself if he is committing to the relationship a reasonable amount, is he committed as much as you are? It's important that you're both equally committed to the relationship and you're both willing to do things for one and another that mean something. Don't disregard your thoughts, if you feel that he's taking you for granted then talk to him about it. Don't keep it all locked up inside otherwise he has no idea what you're thinking or how you feel, so talk to him about it. To answer your question, it sounds like you're a very devote to your boyfriend and that's something that should mean a lot to him so I would say that you're definitely a good girlfriend but remember don't let him become dependent on you. I hope it all works out! =)
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Talk to him. Be honest - it's the best way to maintain a healthy relationship. Tell him how you feel and try to work it out together.
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Times like these, you should really just talk to him about how you feel. It truly takes two to make a relationship work. If you think that he's not putting enough effort into the relationship then tell him that. Tell him that you feel as if he's not putting enough effort into the relationship and it may be that he didn't realize it in the first place. You never know. Communication is key in a healthy relationship. Good luck! (:
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You're showing genuine concern for him. of course you're being a good girlfriend. Now go sit him down and calmly address how you've been feeling.

Make a point of having current-event catching-up with each other. Talk about your feelings and get the tough questions out on the table.