alone, lonely, single and findin someone

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actually i’ve been single for 16 months and all my old relationships are fucked up. although i really try to meet new guys ( i am a guy ) but i always find a poop somewhere.
being alone for years, u start to build that perfect image of the perfect guy and then unable to open up to someone because they just don’t meet with dome details.
i kinda need advice on how dealing with this dilemma, being cool and dating anyone or just keeping up with this

Category: Tags: asked May 8, 2014

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First of all, you shouldn't worry so much about relationships. You may be lonely, which is understandable, but you should focus on more important things. That may be why you aren't finding the right guy for you yet. You may be dwelling on the need for a romance so much that you are searching for it. Love will come when it does. My best advice for you is to not be so in need for a relationship. It's not the most important thing in life! Next, I'd say don't settle. Only go out on dates with a boy if you think you could like him. If you continue to go on dates with these losers, you'll just be even more unhappy! You seem like a sweet person so don't just settle for anyone. Try to imagine what the perfect guy is like because no one is perfect. You just need to find someone who will forget all your imperfections and one that you can forget their imperfections. So, try not expect everything to go perfectly. But, put yourself out there more. Be confident in who you are and have fun. Try new things and meet new people! Good luck!
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That RunawaySpirit couldn't have said it better bro, you shouldn't try and force these kinds of things, just let them happen. Be a little patient. Finding the right person and getting into a relationship is a little like fishing. I think that could be why we say, "there are more fish in the sea". If things aren't working out, try new techniques, look in different places, try new things, and above all be patient. Good things will come to you ;).
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thanks guys actually RunAwaySpirit you are right, i keep my life busy all the time and since i want that romance i idealise it too much.. it is starting to be impossible. but u know there is that hing, that chemistry that u can feel with some people. i no longer feel it with guy, unless they are impossible crushes hhhhh