My grandson is finishing high school with us. He flunked out in another state and came here to finish. He’s been a mess of bad behavior while here, sneaking out, lying, drinking, drugging [weekly drug tests stopped this.] He’ll graduate in mid-January. Then he’ll wait here until the USAF takes him. His mom does not want him back with her to wait for AF. My question. After he graduates…what do I do about him going out and curfew? We live in back-country town with 0 to do after midnight. I can’t sleep until he’s home, and he usually forgets to lock the door, so I always get up to lock it [I was attacked a few years ago at work, and locking door helps my PTSD]. So do I say, go where ever you want but be home by midnight cause after that the doors and windows are locked? I could then sleep? Or so I give him a key, and I won’t sleep till he comes home and I’ll get up to check the door. I’m at a loss…advise, please…
